Time: For how long have you guys been seeing each other? One month? One year? Or, more? Some people take this yardstick very casually and say a hasty ‘yes’ which can be problematic in the long run. To put it simply, while one month before finalizing a marriage is a little too quick, one year might be enough for many people. The amount of time needed to convince one’s self that he or she is the right person for marriage varies. But, do not take decisions in a hurry.