Statements: Women who love to flirt can find a guy 'hot and sexy' and tell that flat on his face. Men use the very same words, while appreciating the odd outfit or accessories that a girl might be wearing/using for the first time. If that happens to you, don't take it seriously. Words like hottie, sweetheart, darling, babe are part of the general vocabulary of flirts: and for many others too. Just chill and give it back, preferably by using a word that's similar to what the flirt has used.